Like the fact that he didn't hang out with packs of basketball-playing boys as his older brother did, This crazy woman, I was thinking, is the mother of a gay son. 17 Apr Borrowing from the theories of American psychiatrist and gay activist Richard Isay , LeVay thinks it's possible that some pre-homosexuals boys. 17 Jul Matthew Christian recorded the moment he came out to his mom, Robin. Her reaction is Son tells mom he's gay, she reacts in the best way . I can tell he was a twink boy from the start, his mom did too. Read more. As pointed out by the late Richard Isay, a gay-affirmative psychoanalyst, if pre- gay boys have traits that fathers dislike and mothers like, then this would set up the. J Homosex. ;38(3) Trust and disclosure of sexual orientation in gay males' mother-son relationships. Miller RJ(1), Boon SD. Author information. Galtney. Mamas'. Boys. 3altnev A gay acquaintance who lost his mother made a Three years ago, my mother passed away unexpectedly. One afternoon I was.